Monday, July 27, 2009

Do you find love or does love find you?

In this business of finding love, efforts certainly do not translate into results. There is absolutely no correlation, whatsoever - which leads me to think perhaps one can't find love but love would have to find its way into one's life. Love - by which I mean romantic love - is like family and friends - they just somehow happen; we certainly did not seek out family nor friends. These gifts are somehow blessed upon us naturally and organically.

Of course there is the camp which purports finding love is akin to finding a job. But getting a job translates into having to work. The last time I checked, there is still a negative connotation attached to "work".

In the business of finding love, I am just going to sit back and let love find its way to me. My part in this is to do everything that I enjoy doing and cracking open my heart. When love arrives, my heart will be open to let it in. Deal, Universe?

1 comment:

teahouse said...

Sounds like a wonderful deal!

And I just started doing yoga again, after a 4 year hiatus..man, I'm rusty!